When we are treated as something special, we think we are a big deal. Then the same person treats someone else special and ignores you, you feel insulted and humiliated. The idea is to live humbly and if rewarded, accept it and when not, accept things the same way.
Everyone has their own style in life. The old have perspective, the young have vigour. We can learn from each other but cannot have what the other generation possesses. We are each shaped by our generations, and to transcend the limitations of our time is a rare occurrence indeed.
Knowing others is intelligence, knowing yourself is true wisdom. When you master yourself, you do not have to master others. When you know you have enough, then you are truly wealthy. Find your roots and nourish them and you will know longevity.
At the beginning of things they maybe unclear, there may be many choices and the lack of direction may make things uncomfortable. First muster your internal strength and, if possible, seek direction and guidance from others; then a more concrete plan will unfold.
Quote: Your visions will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes. Carl Jung