Others will show you where you are stuck, they say or do something and you automatically react in your familiar ways of shutting down or getting worked up. Without others provoking you, you remain ignorant of your habitual responses and cannot transform yourself.
When people are dying, merely being with them or holding hands is eloquence enough. Even though they may not respond they can feel your presence and hear you. The last sense you lose is your hearing, just the sound of your voice will comfort them.
Your spirit energy is always with you, and you can use it in any way you want; it is inexhaustible. It is the infinite gateway to mysteries within mysteries. If you attempt to fix a picture of spirit in your mind you will lose it. Why not be content with simply experiencing it?
When you discover you are distancing and alienating yourself from others, you need to set about eliminating that which blocks your way. Rouse yourself inwardly, with moderation and goodwill, hasten to that which supports you, then all occasion for remorse will disappear.
Quote: Wear gratitude like a cloak and it will feed every corner of your life. Rumi