When something hurts in life, we want to get rid of it right away. Doing this we naively cultivate a subtle aggressiveness against ourselves. Instead, we could aspire to be kind right in the moment, to relax, and open our heart and mind to what is right in front of us.
We talk of emptiness, but if we explore the idea of emptiness with our whole being, we will find there are endless possibilities that exist. This exploration will give us the affirmation of our existence and that we are on the right path. Emptiness should be your constant companion.
Do you have the patience to wait till your mud settles and the water is clear? Can you remain unmoving till the right action arises by itself? Never seeking fulfillment, you are never unfulfilled. Not seeking, not expecting, be present and you will be able to welcome all things.
An exhausting situation can be caused by not having enough or being overwhelmed by having too much. If you are stuck in an exhausting situation, discover the cause, and seek a solution. Merely complaining and being resentful will only make the situation worse.
Quote: The situation may be created by others, but the creation of life is up to oneself.