If we look for that soft heart we guard so carefully, we can’t find it, all we find is a kind of tenderness with some sadness. This sadness is not about somebody mistreating us. The sadness is an inherent sadness, unconditional sadness, this is sometimes called the genuine heart of sadness.
There is no effort we can make to still ourselves. True stillness comes naturally from moments of solitude where we allow our minds to settle. We must take those moments throughout our daily activities and involvements. Like turbulent water the mind will become clear if allowed to be still.
Being of service to others without expectation of reward, not talking about it, just practicing this way of being, you will be rewarded by the way you feel about yourself. We are always doing things, but there is always more to do, just step back and ask yourself, “Is all this doing necessary?”
If you are faced with a superior foe, it would be hopeless to fight them. An orderly retreat is the correct procedure and looking for small ways to minimize the effect. It is by no means a sign of strength or courage to engage in a hopeless struggle, regardless of circumstances.
Quote: When there is no desire, all things are at peace.