Work with your own unacceptable stuff rather than struggling against it, you do this with loving kindness for yourself. Instead of perceiving there is a problem and a solution, just keep your mind and heart open to whatever arises and maybe the perceived problem goes away.
It is possible to live in the world and not be stained by it. Once you gain insight you dispense with the outer and inner world split. Your actions become no different than ordinary everyday actions, but they do not disturb anything, your inner being or the outer world.
If you blame someone else for your failures, there is no end to the blaming. The wise see failure as an opportunity to learn and accept all responsibility for their mistakes. Fulfill your own obligations correct all your mistakes, do what you need to do without demanding from others.
To set limits on your expenditures and bounds on your moral conduct is regarded as morally correct. If you do not exercise restraint, it will create unhappiness, but restraint should not be excessive. Strike a balance between excess and insufficiency and follow the central path.
Quote: When there is opposition remain empty and open, clear and calm, and then it disappears.