The more you practice loving kindness towards others, as well as yourself, the more your heart opens. The more you open your heart, the more challenges come your way, and the more you want to close it. When you practice this at a very deep level you will discover deeper aspects of yourself.
Most of us find the teachings of the ancients obscure and confusing. The secrets of life are already written, all we must do is take some time each day to study them. The only reason they remain confusing is that it takes disciplined effort to study and practice them.
When most people hear about the ancient teachings, they waiver between belief and disbelief. When wise people hear about them, they diligently follow their path. Others laugh at them thinking they are foolish and, by this laughter, we know of their authenticity.
People will give up counselling you if you think you know everything, so be humble, selfless, and keep your mind open and free so it can listen to and be receptive to good advice. If we cannot be influenced ourselves, we cannot influence or help others.
Quote: When there is fixation of attention on small things, then there is forgetfulness of great things.