If we try to protect ourselves from suffering, we become fearful and alienated, caring only for the people close to us. If we primarily try to shield ourselves from discomfort we suffer, but if we don’t close off and let our heart hurt, we discover our kinship with all beings.
Our lives are a tapestry woven of both mistakes and success. Success only comes from the threat of failure. Without that pressure we would not plan, utilize wisdom, or exercise care. We must make our decisions as best we can and, as we mature, we will be able to see our way better.
When we think we know the answers we are difficult to guide. When we realize we don’t know it becomes easy to find our way. By keeping your mind open you become aware of numerous possibilities. The ancients taught the supreme value of a beginner’s mind.
Energy that is renewing itself must be allowed to reinforce itself by rest. The return of health after illness, the return of understanding after estrangement, both must be treated tenderly and with care at the beginning so that the return may lead to flowering.
Quote: If we can change someone’s vision of the future, we can change the way they make decisions today.