When something hurts in life, we want to get rid of it right away. Doing this we naively cultivate a subtle aggressiveness against ourselves. Instead, we could aspire to be kind right in the moment, to relax and open our heart and mind to what is right in front of us.
Explore anything that interests you, any skill you want to learn should be mastered, any subject that arouses your curiosity should be examined. Doing this will help you overcome your insecurities and uncertainties about life , this way you will flow freely with it.
Be natural, look at the substance, not the form and then you will discover the truth. You cannot discover it by accumulating more knowledge; knowledge creates doubt and makes you want more knowledge. Find the subtle truth inside yourself and be content in this knowing.
At the beginning of things they maybe unclear, there may be many choices and the lack of direction may make things uncomfortable. First muster your internal strength and, if possible, seek direction and guidance from others, then a more concrete plan will unfold.
Quote: Remember who you are because nobody else will.