To be fearless is not really to overcome fear, it’s to come to know its nature. To do this, develop compassion for yourself and others and not always wanting things to work out on your own terms, just be curious. Relax, befriend your feelings; then you begin to understand.
Problem solving is based first on thinking there is a problem and then thinking there is a solution. The concepts of problem solving can keep us stuck in thinking there is a right way and a wrong way. Instead, keep your heart and mind open to whatever arises, not knowing what will happen.
To cleanse oneself of contaminations, such as anger, resistance or self-absorption, practice undiscriminating virtue. To practice virtue, give without limitations, without prejudice and without expectations. If your willingness to give is limited, so is your ability to receive.
When a change happens, look for the lessons it can teach you rather than reacting in your old habitual ways. Learn from others reactions to the change, take time to pause and observe to see if this is the way you should respond. Everything that happens to you is useful to you in some way.
Quote: Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams, who looks within, awakes. – Carl Jung