Do not shut anyone out of your heart and don’t make the other into an opponent. When we open our hearts, we can’t make things completely right or wrong anymore. Trying to find absolute rights and wrongs is a trick we play on ourselves to feel secure and comfortable.
Balance is a dynamic process. Even if some things seem wildly excessive, they will be balanced by others. As events turn, balance is to know what is here, what is coming and how to be in harmony with it, then you attain a state of sublimity that cannot be challenged.
If you want love and respect from people, treat everybody with love and respect. If you compete with no one, no one will compete with you. If you are not guided by your ego and emotions and let yourself be guided by wisdom instead, you will be able to respond to your needs and those of others.
When things reach their upper limit, they alternate and change direction. If the situation is unfavorable, do not blame others and restrain yourself to keep the situation from worsening. Only by accepting the situation and being patient will you find success.
Quote: Life is ever too important a thing as to talk seriously about. Oscar Wilde