Setting goals for others is aggressive, really wanting a success story for ourselves, we are asking them to live up to our ideals. You should never have expectations for others, just be kind to them. If people mess up, do anything you can to bring some happiness into their lives.
If we want to be successful pay attention to the small things. If we are waiting for the big thing, the small chances slip right by us. Do not wait for the perfect opportunity to do something big, pay attention to the small things, they may grow to be big things.
To save the world develop an awareness of the subtle truths. Calm your mind, follow the ancient teachings, merge your virtue with the universal virtue and extend it to the world without expectations of reward. This way you will find peace.
With your family the performance of moral duty is easier because of natural affection. This same moral duty you practice with your family and that your family practices will be reflected with all your relationships outside of your family in society.
Quote: Life is ever too important a thing as to talk seriously about. Oscar Wilde.