When we are treated as something special, we think we are a big deal. Then the same person treats someone else special and ignores you, you feel insulted and humiliated. The idea is to live humbly and if rewarded, accept it and when not, accept things the same way.
It is up to us to sing as we feel moved by the overall song of life. Be like the birds, sing when the rains come, and know what to do when winter comes. Birds sometimes harmonize with life, or sing discordant tunes, but still sing with life whatever it brings them.
There is no need to seek external deities or seek power over nature and others. Become co creators with all others creating the great process of life. Be constantly aware of all that is happening to you and around you enter the harmony of nature.
If you wish to influence others, first start by cultivating your own personality. This practice must be allowed to take its course, being hasty would not be wise. Gentleness that is adaptable, but at the same time penetrating, is the outer form that should proceed from inner calm.
Quote: When unexpected changes occur look for the opportunity it brings you.