Whether we experience what happens to us as an obstacle and enemy or a teacher and friend depends entirely on our perception of reality. It really depends on our relationship with ourselves.
It is our own experiences that are our ultimate teachers. We should engage in society and activities of the world, and constantly test ourselves against the flux of circumstances. This way you can confirm your thoughts and compensate for your short comings.
Respond to things in the appropriate way; if asked, answer, otherwise mind your own business. A good word can rationalize a selfish act and a good deed can sometimes serve as a mask for living extravagantly from the misery of others. Therefore, all words and deeds must come from your heart, no motives.
A project still in its beginning that has not been challenged, brings no blame, since there has been no opportunity to make mistakes. Remain conscious of the difficulties to be overcome and this will keep you from arrogance and wastefulness.
Quote: Be it remembered that we command nature, as it were, by obeying nature’s laws.