Work with your own unacceptable stuff rather than struggling against it, you do this with loving kindness for yourself. Instead of perceiving there is a problem, just keep your mind and heart open to whatever arises and maybe there is no problem.
Personal triumph is doing your personal best, it is not about winning or being better than someone else. Challenge yourself to be your very best by entering competitions, in this is the way you make yourself better. Cultivating a skill without using it is like learning a foreign language without leaving home.
Respond to things in the appropriate way if asked, answer, otherwise mind your own business. A good word can rationalize a selfish act and a good deed can sometimes serve as a mask for living extravagantly from the misery of others; therefore, all words and deeds must come from your heart, no motives.
When you have learned in your heart what fear means, you will be safeguarded against fear produced by outside influences. This learning produces an inner strength and seriousness that all fears glance off harmlessly.
Quote: By delegating you pass on the worry.