We need to train in mindfulness and unconditional friendliness. Let this training evolve naturally with constant practice.
The pursuit of love and compassion is not without pain and confusion, but we must try.
Practicing virtue is to selflessly offer assistance to others, without judgement or prejudices. If your willingness to give blessings is limited, so is your ability to receive them. The more you give the more you receive.
Quote: Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.